As we approach another pivotal election, I find myself grappling with a question that has weighed heavily on my mind: Why are so many women choosing to support Donald J. Trump?
As someone deeply committed to the progress and empowerment of women, this choice feels difficult to understand.
I want to approach this conversation with respect and curiosity, not judgment. We all come to our decisions based on our own experiences, values, and hopes for the future.
But still, I find myself asking—how do we reconcile the strong, resilient nature of women with a candidate whose actions and words have often seemed to undermine that very strength?
Many women who support Trump point to his policies on the economy (THEIR MONEY), national security, and immigration as reasons for their loyalty.
These amazing women believe he represents a strong, decisive leader who can protect their interests and those of their families.
For some, his brashness is seen as a sign of authenticity, a welcome break from the polished, scripted politicians of the past.
Others may feel a sense of loyalty to the party they’ve always supported or fear the changes a different administration might bring.
Yet, as women who have fought tirelessly for our rights, our autonomy, and our place in the world, how do we align ourselves with someone who has been accused of dismissing and demeaning us?
How do we, as women who understand the deep and lasting impact of words, overlook the rhetoric that has often seemed to belittle us?
I’m not here to say anyone is wrong in their choice—that’s not my place.
But I do want to invite a deeper conversation.
What does it mean to support someone whose values and actions have, almost always, clashed with the very principles of respect and equality that we hold dear?
How do we balance our individual needs with the collective needs of all women, especially those who are marginalized and vulnerable?
In a time when the stakes feel incredibly high, I believe we owe it to ourselves to examine our choices closely.
To ask not only what we’re voting for, but who we’re voting for, and what that choice says about the future we want to create—for ourselves, our daughters, and the generations to come.
I invite us all to reflect on these questions with an open heart and a clear mind.
Our votes are powerful, and with them comes the responsibility to choose wisely, not just for ourselves but for all women.
Let’s continue this conversation with empathy, respect, and a commitment to understanding one another, even when we don’t always see eye to eye.
Let us communicate and figure-out a harmonious, albeit disagreed, world that most of us imagine.
Beautiful and heart felt. I don’t get it either … CM, yes? yes.